Question:
I have an upcoming trip to visit our children. Both have asked me to stay when I visit. How do I decide which home to stay in?
Response:
Have you thought about dividing the time you are in town and staying at each house half the time? It seems as if this would be the most fair thing for all involved.
Or, if you visit regularly, you could stay at one house for one visit and the other house for the next visit.
If your children are both insisting that you stay with them the whole time, you can simply explain that you want to give equal time to each family.